Getting Started
Begin the conversation about in-home care with your loved ones
Engaging in conversations about in-home care assistance with your loved ones can pose a challenging task. Such discussions often elicit discomfort and difficulty, particularly when adult children initiate talks about supporting their parents. It is common for parents to interpret this as a potential loss of control and independence. Taking proactive steps to plan for the future empowers you to make crucial decisions while you still have the capacity. Home-based care encompasses health, personal, and additional support services tailored to help you stay at home and maintain the highest level of independence possible.
Furthermore, addressing the topic of senior living arrangements, whether within the home or elsewhere, is best approached well in advance of any urgent need. Waiting until after a significant event, such as a fall or hospitalization, or observing a decline in cognitive function, as seen in Alzheimer’s or other dementias, can lead to heightened stress levels and intense emotions. Introducing significant life changes under such circumstances only magnifies the stress. Let's initiate this conversation now.
Seeking guidance from a senior Care Manager in private consultations can offer valuable insights.
Encourage them to be the decision-makers, with your role being to present suggestions or options rather than giving advice or making demands. Keep in mind that your objective is to honor and respect your parents by helping them plan for the next phase of their lives.
It's essential to recognize that seeking assistance from a professional caregiver doesn't compromise independence.
Gain an understanding of how they perceive dependence, providing a basis for approaching or addressing the topic with love.